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The Power Squad Project

“you drink too much.
you cuss too much.
you have questionable morals.
you're everything i ever wanted in a friend.” 
― Kitchen Towel


 
When I was in my 20s I organized a volunteering party.  I had 15 friends come together to help in a full day give back to the community event.  We painted, we organized, we moved boxes, we spent hours upon hours getting dirty.  

During that day, some of the girls and I talked about our favorite books and what we were reading.  So I then organized a book club.  We picked a book and picked a date and went with it.  Laini, Jodi, Becky, Renee, Marcia and I think Roxanne all came to my parents house to review our first book.  It was my pick.  It was a horrible read.  Marcia sat in the corner looking like she was sulking.  Renee tried to find the good in the book and insist it was "ok".   It was nerve wracking and awkward.  We knew each other sort of and just a little but this intimate setting took strangers to a new level of strange.  

I wanted the connection.  I wanted the girlfriends.  I wanted girlfriends that I had something in common with!  
I was awkward. I was weird.  I was horrible at picking good books.  AND I was doing this all from my parent's living room!
(Shouldn't I have been in an apartment yet?!)

But if I wanted these things.  I had to be the one to do it.  I had to be the one to create it.  If I wanted the connection, I had to create it. 
I had no idea what I was doing. 
I was interested in making friends. 
I was interested in having discussions and conversations. 
I was interested. 

So I sent the emails.  Sent the invites.  Offered to host.  
And the tribe was created. 
The book club was created. 

Women came in, women went out.  
But there was a core of awesome women that met every month.
Every month we picked a book.   Most of read it.  It was okay if we didn't. 
Eventually we got to a point where we would yell out
"Anybody want to discuss the book?"
We were thick as thieves.  
Maybe we talked during the month.  Maybe not. 
When it was time to get together, we were so interested in talking and catching up together. 

We met for 10 years.  Every month. 
That's a tribe.  
It's a tribe that started with a whole lot of awkward.  
We went through the years together.  New houses, new engagements and new husbands.  New babies.  

Today, right now, think about your tribe.  
Commit to it.  
Commit to them. 

When I was in my 20s I invited a bunch of unknowns to connect with me.   It was the best experience of my life.  The best friends of my life. 
When I was in my 30s and living on a different coast, I created a cooking club.  We don't get together every month anymore.  But we did.  And our connection are real.  Our friendships are real.  
Now that I am almost 40, The Power Squad Project is the new vision.  A new tribe in the making.  
We're not perfect.  But the friendships are developing. 
Connecting with you.  
Here.  
Connecting with you in person.  
Connecting with you, period. 

It's awkward in the beginning.  There's stuff we have to figure out together.  
But there's no doubt it ...
It's sooo worth it.

You're worth it. 

Would you reply back and let me know if you are feelin' it? 
 

Quick side note from Ashleigh.  Here are my most favorite tools ever.

  • For audio motivation - Relentless by Tim Grover. I listen to him as I was in the mornings.  My walk always becomes a power walk after listening. 
  • To focus during the day I love to focus@will.  They say music helps you focus and for me it surely does.  I blare the classical music.  I am not sure how many people my age choose that over techno but either way I love it.
  • Rosemarie Groner (from the Busy Budgeter) is a friend and I just LOVE how much she gives everything away.  She tells you and anyone she can her detailed way to making money!  Start with her Pinterest Strategy Guide that is worth every penny.  Not. going. to. lie.

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LEAD.  

--> Woo!  July is over and a new month is upon us.  What better activity can you do than to calculate ROI?  But did you know there are some other things you should be calculating too?  While you're digging into your numbers, dig in here too.  (Hint: CAC & CLV is important too.)  This is where we make differences in our businesses.  

--> Once you know these, those Facebook ads become a no brainer.  Yes, I said no brainer.  If you can get your conversion per Facebook user to be lower than your CLV, then you know precisely how much money you can pump into ads (as much as possible) because you are then essentially printing money.  #yourewelcome
If this is confusing on any level, reply back and I will go deeper if I have to.   

 

MANAGE.  

--> Selena Soo re-posted this awesome article on How Each Myers-Briggs Type Reacts to Stress (and How to Help!).  It's brilliant.  (I'm an I/ENFP and it was SPOT on.)

--> 8 Brutally Honest Truths You Need To Hear If You Want To Get Your Sh*t Together.

 

GIVE. 

--> I started Whole30 a few weeks back.  It's a gift you can give yourself.  I have slipped a few times in the rules (I hate rules) but the transformation is unreal.  The energy is there.  The comfort.  The blah feeling is gone.  Afternoons are easier.  It's a gift you can give yourself.
 
 

The Power Squad Project

IN CASE YOU MISSED IT:

--> This past week on the The Power Squad Project Podcast I talked about dreaming big and how things I personally dreamed about, manifested itself into reality.  When I think about the different things that have come true and why, it makes even me want to dream bigger in my heart and soul.  You can listen a few ways.  Via iTunes or directly from this site.  You choose.  Listen in and dream bigger. 

--> I was interviewed by Jen Turell on her podcast Financial Fluency: How Women Thrive Outside the 9 to 5.  You can listen in on that one too here.  Of course we talked all about how and why The Power Squad Project got started!


It's going to be a great week ahead!!

You've got this! 

 

Ashleigh Blatt

Newport Beach, CA

Woman, Wife, Mama of 2, Business Owner & Podcaster.  At GWC Management we improve corporate conversations and maximize productivity.  It's that simple and that difficult.  New Mompreneur on Fire Podcaster & Blogger discussing that tough job of balancing babies and businesses with grace - err - most of the time!